Friendship

Everyone has friends. Sometimes those friends become more wanted type person and some not, so basically friends are who is your other half with two mom’s who will taunt both the person in daily way, i guess.

I too have lots of friends, some I met offlines i.e., on classes or meeting and some on social media even though we don’t talk. They can be truly be helpful, isn’t! In case your real friends cannot help.

There is one friend I met her in college, let’s name her Chinki. She is somewhat thin and pale, have big eyes, little nose and shorter than me but she like cute baby. Fun part is that she is from my mother’s side family and we are relatives. We enjoyed been together in class or outside class but a truning point came where we separated and those friendship became memories.

Now we don’t talk much it’s like if she has work Chinki will contact me otherwise no more hi and hello. I don’t remember when it started, we were like sisters and our whole department knew that those must stay together, they can’t be separated. We gave our exams together and Chinki passed and I remained where I was before. I guess since thn we fall apart, the friendship we built destroyed. I admit that I got jealous of her that we Chinki got into which we both applied for and I didn’t even pass the exam. I think it was my fault for not working hard.

Anyways it’s been a 1and 1/2 year that we didn’t make what was lacking and still in that phase where we don’t talk, we don’t miss each other ……

Yeah! Time seriously flies fast if we want to make memories. The friendship I wanted lasted only for 3years but I made new friends, they are also good but that bonding Chinki and I made have marked me, now I cannot bond with new friends.

You know that, your mom can be your best friend. Before I met Chinki I already had a best friend but that time I didn’t know she was with me all the time. Let’s name my mom Moni. She is the best example of friendship we all talk and read in stories. While in college I started sharing the thoughts with her and surprisingly she didn’t taunt me or nagged me been ridiculous about all the facts I prepared in mind. That time I realised that friendship is not been with someone who only share thoughts for sometime and be there for you is she or he feel safe about the situation. Friendship is when she/he give you her/his back of support every way possible and will never back bite or feel jealousy for what you achieved. Unlike Chinki’s parents who have compared her with me. At point it became so much that even my parents thought I am a bad guy who does all sort of things that I shouldn’t have done. I told Chinki about that your parents are been ridiculous for everything that we do, can’t they trust you. Her parents were like call her every 30 minutes to check where she is and what is is doing! Which totally annoyed me, how come there are still parents who doesn’t trust their children. That was also a point wher I started to avoid her every way possible as my parents are not so strict about me being with friends. If we see that was the point too where I unconditionally started to separate myself from her and started being sharing thoughts with my mom ( Moni).

Today I can say that I have a best friend who is my mother (Moni). We share every single bond that the word friendship lacks too. She is perfect for me and I think I got my gems of friendship with mother’s love, with friend’s fight, with friend’s joy.

Lastly, I will say go find your best buddy regards of gender, she/he is there infront of you, recognise him/her and never leave a chance to talk to your parents who are really awsome. They will make feel the happiest person on Earth with everything.