Never explain yourself
There is no need to explain yourself to anyone. You have your own life, and it is only you who has the right to live and love it as you want. Just make sure that you have been true to yourself, and you will not require explaining anything to others ever again. You do not take other’s approval to live your life.
“Never explain yourself to anyone. Because the person who likes you don’t need it. And the person who dislikes you won’t believe it.” — Buddha’s Teaching and Science
We need not explain ourselves or exhibit to anybody about our worth or credentials to prove ourselves those who do not believe us or dislike. As a matter of fact, our movements and actions will spread and come to know the facts based on the information available and appears automatically. Credibility should be gained based on our experience and put our effort on a particular task or event depending on the result we get will come out and printed in the minds of others gradually periodically. It is a step by step process. Nothing happens instantly. One has to create and construct brick by brick like a wall which becomes strong and stable forever. Character and personality development depends on our habits and action we do on regular basis in our activities reflects and show the graph like a mirror which gives clear cut results. It is a process to understand and digest to know the ground realities and takes time to analyze and establish to conclude and come to a decision on a particular person or institution for that matter anything and everything. Grow horizontally in natural way keeps us to elevate and enhance in a systematic and dynamic manner gives an immense pleasure and satisfaction. Satisfaction plays the role. It is ultimate.