Transformation

As the year ends

I count my blessings –

By trying to not let my thoughts gravitate towards negativity

And practising giving gratitude and developing an opportunistic approach, to see the silver lining in every situation

And not by comparing myself to anybody

Understanding that judgemental people have more problems of themselves – most importantly personal problems, lack of common sense than the person being judged

I give more priority to internal validation –

I really feel blessed

I feel happy in my own way.

My intuition is the voice of my God

Which I have not let any person overshadow by gaslighting or manipulation-

I thank God I am mild natured

Not extreme in any way-

I am thankful to God for the virtues bestowed on me

My natural rhythm

Which I have preserved with my strength.

As for the challenges life has given me

I am thankful to God

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Challenges are learning experiences making you enrich your understanding of life,

I have not given anybody permission to make me lose the control of my mind.

I do not feel empty in any way

As I have learnt to see the glass half full of water, not half empty.

I have no fear,

I have no pain,

My humility and powerful will

My desire to learn and become an improved version of myself in my own pace

Makes me dream of better days.

I am a flower blooming in my own natural pace

Without stupid dependencies or going beyond my limits –

I will be that flower throughout.

I have very reasonable amount of desire

That does not create any adverse effect on me,

But my choice is best, very good quality, reasonable, I am thankful I am like this.

Somewhere I have realised that whether in family or work

Egocentric leadership and madness causes havoc-

Irreparable damages , demoralisation and stress and loss of common sense in many ways

With very deep rooted adverse consequences.

The rubbish part is

We are pressurized to marry,do job,lead, handle money, cook,raise children,

But we learn by default,not by design-

We are not even ready, not taught essential things

Adults stop learning and updating themselves,

The worst thing that can ever be-

Society at large is so ignorant,making you feel bad for all wrong reasons

It is time to make transformations in our own little ways

Firstly in ourselves creating ripple effects on others.

I do not want to be one of those adults-

Show horses with false pretense

Manipulating others with torturous habits and gyans and accepting manipulation also-

I love to see many people in social media

Raising their voice against many bad and unnatural social norms

That ruin a person’s life in many ways-

Are we educated to silently accept ruin, cling on to rubbish mindsets,

and feel bad or make others feel bad for wrong reasons?

Looking forward to New Year

To see positive TRANSFORMATION –

Quality oriented, not quantity oriented –

To bring positive TRANSFORMATION-

Use of creative approaches to create mindful revolutions

To channel the poisons of today to the cascading waterfalls of tomorrow’s joy and peace.