A New Thrilling Chapter
Life’s path leads us, even if we do not want to certain undesirable unchartered territories and paths, even unexpected strange people, situations and outcomes.
Instead of making all this hurt you, you can channelize this in a positive way. This can be a learning experience not only for you, but others also. There should be an outlet to express, and may be in many cases there can be nothing better than writing.
Human brain has no subtraction –this is the hard reality. So memories, even if you make great efforts to feed your mind with positivity resurfaces again and again, and you seek different interpretations and consolations. It is a battle going on in the mind. But , if you keep in the mind it will go on troubling you. So if you write it out, somewhere it starts to get out of your system. It is cathartic and also gets a value.
It is true we have a fate, but it is also true that we have the power in us , strength in us to get bolstered, develop more awareness, upgrade and update ourselves, breathe our mind with positivity, choose positive people in our life whom we want to give our utmost priority and take good decisions. We are not so weak to succumb to fate. Making conscious decisions and proper choices can minimize the bad effects of our fate. Even God may intervene and bless us to overcome some bad limitations of our fate.
Of course there may be strange complications and intervention of strange people in your life, but how you deal with it depends on you. You may be hurt by someone, but it is up to you whether you will succumb to depression and lament or you will use the burning fire inside you to channel you towards more positive developments and greater heights in life. In every situation you have a choice. The situation may be out of your control, but your choice is in your control. Wrong choices and decisions can deprive you of the many good things God is giving you at the present moment. If you give priority to a wrong negative person over a relatively more well intentioned and positive person, you make a wrong choice for which you can suffer throughout your life. So there is no excuse when it comes to making decisions and choices. Ultimately you are responsible for your own well being, you have every right to surround yourself with people who genuinely want your well being. A person who was well intentioned before may become toxic later, and the level of toxicity may go beyond tolerance. You have every right to distance or eliminate that person from your life, irrespective of the person’s age and bonding with you. You have to consider the present situation.
Every person has some shortcoming or fault. Getting along with this person embracing all this and going a bit against yourself is Ok until it starts adversely affecting you. Sometimes there may be a breakdown in your level of tolerance. Most people will say, “If you can’t tolerate all this then how would you go forward in life?’’ and blame you and there is no wrong if you are so –called selfish and get rid of such intolerable persons who will never mend their ways and blame others if they complaint against heaping their problems and negativity again and again. If this adversely affects you and the person does not stop what is intolerable to you or affecting you, you have every right to shut out that person. It does not mean you cannot adapt. In the name of adaptation you are not meant to ruin yourself. If the other person goes on doing what you are not liking and does not care that it is adversely affecting you and goes on heaping on you , you have every right to eliminate this person who was initially very good, because now the person is no good than damn garbage. This may hurt, memories and soft corners may trouble the mind, but eventually you have not made yourself get ruined. This is the victory of your strength. The disturbances in the mind will be short term and you must not stop hoping of a new love coming your way to heal your scarred mind and help you re-establish your belief in love and trust.
People leaving you for silly reasons or rejecting you for wrong reasons, making you feel alone is just an illusion.
God never leaves you. God comes to you in different forms.
In case of a God sent person, if the proportion of the Devil becomes more than the proportion of God in that person, the person becomes toxic and eventually may leave you, or you have no other choice but to leave the person considering the overall present situation. God sent this person to love you, but now the devil has taken the better of that person. A void in your life may be created by the absence of the person, conflicting thoughts may arise time and again. Sometimes you may come to terms with the situation, sometimes you may not. Many questions may race through your mind, some answers you will get, some you will not. Time and again your mind will recollect good moments and want to go back , and then some alarm may sound inside you telling you not to renew the relationship.
But the magic is that if the person has not been worthy of your love, God will never disappoint you. God will come in the form of another person to love you and you have to cultivate a positive mindset and surrender yourself to God to believe in this magic waiting for you. It is better to ask God to pardon you for any sin knowingly or maybe unknowingly you have done, may be in your previous birth for which you got this pain. But if you keep yourself in the right track, do not do strange things out of insecurity and consolidate your entire self with positivity, self-love, self-confidence, belief in God and a firm will to fight out all your anxieties and worries, life will eventually open up many magical doors for you. It is always advisable to not make yourself succumb to addictive practices, even addictive medications, but to believe that your body and mind naturally is well equipped to make you get out of negativity, sad feelings, anxiety, problems and to channel you towards power and light.
A new thrilling chapter in your life waits to be unfolded, and you will be the architect of that chapter with God giving you strength and direction.
You have every right to distance yourself from frustrated people wanting no good of themselves and others, you have every right to take care of your health and well being irrespective of discouragement by people who cannot handle themselves properly, you have every right to lead a life that aligns with you and gives you more productivity, peace and joy. You are not born to ruin yourself, you are born to rejuvenate yourself, align yourself and make necessary positive changes to be at peace with yourself. And never forget, “Sweet are the uses of adversity.’’
So an adverse situation or consequence actually is meant to make your future sweeter, only if you believe it can.
